I will provide you with tips and advice that will help you get over the 'cold feet' syndrome, that generally lasts for a few days only, sometimes just for a few hours. It is so common to get cold feet, that in the wedding planning time-line, between the engagement and the wedding day the potential cold feet syndrome can pop up. It's really nothing to worry about. What you need to realize is that these irrational fears don't mean much and don't start debating whether or not to get married. Shreds of doubt can turn things into a big mess if you don't get a grip.
The First Tip states that you should write down everything that's bothering you. At this point either one of two things can happen: You may not be able to write even one sentence and then you'll realize that you have nothing to write because you have nothing to worry about. If you do have things to write down, by all means do so, and you will most probably find that most of your fears and worries are irrelevant to the wedding planning or to the honeymoon planning or probably not even relevant to reality at all.
Write a romantic gushing letter to your partner and see what comes out - If you are capable of writing all these wonderful things about love and commitment then by all means, your fears are insignificant and mean absolutely nothing. If you can't write something nice to your partner - you're in trouble.
Here's another tip : go through pictures of you and your lover together and remind yourself of all the great things you did together and how much fun you had and so on. If you are nauseated by the photos then I would hold off on the wedding. If the pictures make you miss your lover then keep on planning that honeymoon and calm down!
Maybe you should stop thinking about the wedding and the honeymoon for awhile and stop planning for a bit so that you can step back and evaluate the situation. Give yourself a vacation, go out with friends, anything to take your mind off the wedding planing and figure out how you feel. Chances are you will probably get piss drunk and call your lover telling them how much you need him or her and everything will be just fine.
The First Tip states that you should write down everything that's bothering you. At this point either one of two things can happen: You may not be able to write even one sentence and then you'll realize that you have nothing to write because you have nothing to worry about. If you do have things to write down, by all means do so, and you will most probably find that most of your fears and worries are irrelevant to the wedding planning or to the honeymoon planning or probably not even relevant to reality at all.
Write a romantic gushing letter to your partner and see what comes out - If you are capable of writing all these wonderful things about love and commitment then by all means, your fears are insignificant and mean absolutely nothing. If you can't write something nice to your partner - you're in trouble.
Here's another tip : go through pictures of you and your lover together and remind yourself of all the great things you did together and how much fun you had and so on. If you are nauseated by the photos then I would hold off on the wedding. If the pictures make you miss your lover then keep on planning that honeymoon and calm down!
Maybe you should stop thinking about the wedding and the honeymoon for awhile and stop planning for a bit so that you can step back and evaluate the situation. Give yourself a vacation, go out with friends, anything to take your mind off the wedding planing and figure out how you feel. Chances are you will probably get piss drunk and call your lover telling them how much you need him or her and everything will be just fine.
Tips for Wedding Cold Feet
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